Overcoming the fight between your child I

Fight between your child

Naturally, brother and sister fight. New reconciled, a while later was "busy" again. You can not avoid them. But, why are they fighting? How to cope? "Allowed! It's mine! "Cried the sister, snatching back cars captured brother. But the brother did not want to lose. He seized cars behind it. Be they grab each other, screaming. The sister who annoyed, finally hitting his younger brother. She wept.

Other times, the brother who makes trouble. Her sister who was busy playing alone, suddenly, either take her dolls, tie her hair off, or just teasing. The sister who feels disturbed, then angry, yelling. The elder brother rather than stop "teasing" the younger sister, even more fun. He only stopped after the little one cries or mothers' hands down.

Something like that might have become "daily meal" for the parents of children under five. Either the brother or the sister who makes trouble ahead. Not infrequently we contrived annoyance and despair facing children who seemed to stop fighting. As a result, when the children fight, we usually will immediately yell, asking them to immediately stop the quarrel, scold, and even punishing.

Expressing Emotion

Do not panic when the kids fight. If we do, they will only continue to feel blamed, feel that the fight was 'a huge sin' in the house just because usually the parents who panic and then scold and punish. How come? This is because it doesn't  always have a negative impact. Through the fight, children learn to express their emotions. Such debate. Because of a fight, baseball should be just a physical contest. Now, through arguing, they learn to express opinions and emotions.

A fight or quarrel, is the result. Because that's what should be highlighted. Not the argument but how each child express their emotions. Children who do not dare argue, may not dare to express anger or irritation. Usually they will have a flat emotion, not sensitive, less sensitive.

However, do not mean that I agree that any conflict should always be sustained in a fight. Especially if they are to physical fights, it should be avoided. Because, if we get children argue and end up with physical fights, then what happens is they could not control their emotions. But, what really makes the kids fight?

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